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No, you're not a "weight"! Good heavens. But here's a thought that has occurred to me before about myself: sometimes I think my own difficulty at being happy sometimes rubs off on those closest to me. Perhaps they feel that if they were better friends, then I would be better. Does that make sense? Are you not wondering the very same thing about yourself in relationship to WG? You're wondering what's wrong with YOU because HE'S down. I sometimes think the inverse is true, too.
Not that I believe we should "fake" happiness in order to make our loved ones feel like they're doing a good job. But I definitely feel like genuinely working towards our own genuine happiness will affect everyone we come into contact with.
I guess that's what people mean by we have to love ourselves first.